feat(shoot-grafter): introduce metrics

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This PR adds metrics Service and ServiceMonitor for shoot-grafter chart. Monitoring labels are made configurable, so that users can specify different kube-monitoring plugin name.

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Reference issue: cloudoperators/shoot-grafter#11